Sunday, September 25, 2011
I no longer have Facebook.
For those of you who don't know and may be following a take I no longer have a Facebook account. I closed it a little over a month ago because a fake passing off as me, as a lesbian stripper took the time to have its friends report my personal Facebook and have it deleted. Honestly I'm disappointed in FB for obviously not doing any thorough investigating. I mean I had all my family right there in my family section who could have vouched for me. Anyways, I DO NOT HAVE FACEBOOK and I will never have FB again. Now there are numerous fan sites, but I can positively assure you that if your friends with anyone trying to pass off with my images actively updating statuses it is NOT me. :(
Love yall.
QK
Love yall.
QK
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Monday, February 7, 2011
So he don't appreciate you?
There are some women who say that their boyfriends just don't appreciate them. If you are one of them there he is what you should know about why some guys just don't appreciate their girlfriends.
She is nothing more than a doormat
When you are in love you want to do everything for your man to keep him happy. But some women go overboard in doing so and end up being like doormats. Once a man realizes that his girl is going to accept his most unreasonable demand and wish his appreciation for her just goes down the drain.
She makes herself too available
When a woman is around a man all the time and makes herself all too much available for him then his appreciation for her wanes. Just like too much of something is bad, hanging around a guy whenever he is free also spells disaster. Such women don't get appreciated because their men never get a chance to miss them.
She whines all the time
A man will not appreciate a woman who whines and cries all the time. Being on a self pity drive doesn't encourage anyone to appreciate you. Instead it acts brilliantly when you want to annoy a guy and drive him away from yourself.
She doesn't give him any space
Some women suffocate a man by their presence. They don't believe that a man might just want to do something without them. These women become veritable pile on's that men find difficult to shrug off. Hence they begin to treat these women in a way that makes them feel unappreciated.
She is too critical of him
A man is also not appreciative of a woman who is too critical of him. Everybody has flaws and a guy just wants to be accepted as a package with his set of flaws included. When a woman begins to constantly criticize him on the pretext of changing him and making him 'better' he begins to lose all appreciation for her.
He just cannot see all the things that she is doing for him
Some men are also short sighted. They cannot bring themselves to see all that their girlfriend is doing for them. These men are so full of themselves that they become incapable of appreciating anyone except themselves.
He just cannot respect her
Finally, a man will not be able to appreciate a woman who he doesn't respect. If his girlfriend acts in a manner where she either flirts with his friends or misbehaves or doesn't value the things that he likes and does for her then he will not appreciate her.
She is nothing more than a doormat
When you are in love you want to do everything for your man to keep him happy. But some women go overboard in doing so and end up being like doormats. Once a man realizes that his girl is going to accept his most unreasonable demand and wish his appreciation for her just goes down the drain.
She makes herself too available
When a woman is around a man all the time and makes herself all too much available for him then his appreciation for her wanes. Just like too much of something is bad, hanging around a guy whenever he is free also spells disaster. Such women don't get appreciated because their men never get a chance to miss them.
She whines all the time
A man will not appreciate a woman who whines and cries all the time. Being on a self pity drive doesn't encourage anyone to appreciate you. Instead it acts brilliantly when you want to annoy a guy and drive him away from yourself.
She doesn't give him any space
Some women suffocate a man by their presence. They don't believe that a man might just want to do something without them. These women become veritable pile on's that men find difficult to shrug off. Hence they begin to treat these women in a way that makes them feel unappreciated.
She is too critical of him
A man is also not appreciative of a woman who is too critical of him. Everybody has flaws and a guy just wants to be accepted as a package with his set of flaws included. When a woman begins to constantly criticize him on the pretext of changing him and making him 'better' he begins to lose all appreciation for her.
He just cannot see all the things that she is doing for him
Some men are also short sighted. They cannot bring themselves to see all that their girlfriend is doing for them. These men are so full of themselves that they become incapable of appreciating anyone except themselves.
He just cannot respect her
Finally, a man will not be able to appreciate a woman who he doesn't respect. If his girlfriend acts in a manner where she either flirts with his friends or misbehaves or doesn't value the things that he likes and does for her then he will not appreciate her.
Sunday, January 23, 2011
10 Mistakes women make with men..
It is rightly said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Yet, they share a strong magnetic attraction for each other. As for men, you can’t live with them or without them. Annoying as they may be, nobody can deny the kind of excitement they bring into a woman’s life. You may bump into a prospective guy at a club and numbers are exchanged. A few dates later (which you thought were perfect) he dumps you! Wondering why? Here is a list of 10 mistakes women commonly make with men.
1. Being Too Available
It is important to be there for him; however, being available all the time is a strict no-no. Chances are that he will take you for granted in the long run. You may also come across as a desperate woman trying really hard for him. Men tend to get attracted to girls who are a little challenging to get. Show him that you also have a lot in life besides him.
2. Being Impractical
Many women live in a fairyland, where they assume their man to be their Prince Charming. He’s not going to be the most perfect man in the world and most importantly, he’s not going to be flawless. Everyone has some negative aspects in them, so you need to accept him along with his shortcomings.
3. Being Too Honest Too Soon
Never be too honest very soon. Don’t go about sharing intimate details on the first date itself. You may just bore your date. Getting to know each other should be step by step. It takes time. Besides, men also tend to find women who are not very open about themselves in the initial stages very interesting and with an aura of mystery about them.
4. Being Too Gullible
Trust is important. However, don’t ever trust anyone blindly in the ‘getting-to-know’ stage. It does not mean that you go about showing them you are suspicious. It’s just that you shouldn’t simply believe every word they say. Men tend to flatter women to appear charming. They may also put up a false front to appear more appealing. It is necessary to keep your eyes and ears open in order to catch the fake from the real ones. Girls have a very strong sixth sense. Let that little wiggle in you guide your way.
5. Being A Control Freak
(Being a control freak is a ultimate NO NO!!)
Don’t be so obsessed of taking charge all the time. Be it planning for a date or making reservations, sometimes it is fine to sit back and let the man do the work. It helps to boost their male ego and makes them feel powerful by taking care of you. But if you go about being a control freak and taking total charge of their lives, it may just scare them away.
6. Pretending To Be Someone Else
Never ever pretend. Men hate women who are fake and are afraid to be themselves. Being comfortable in your own skin by itself is a turn on. Always be proud about the person you are and never feel ashamed about yourself. Just be yourself and you will just do fine. At the end of the day even if the relationship doesn’t work, why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t accept you the way you are? In such a case, even if the relationship works, it would take a toll on you pretending to live up to his expectations all the time. It is the best option to let him have a glimpse of the true you at the very beginning.
7. Expecting The Man To Make The First Move
Whoever laid down the rule that the man has to make the first move? Research reveals that men find women who make the first move very appealing. It shows their high level confidence and independence which are two big turn-on’s among women.
8. Being Too Feminine
Men hate women who get angry for small things, always fuss over their weight, makeup and other such sissy topics. They prefer someone they can identify with and feel comfortable around. Show your Grounded sides, be down to earth... Overreacting for everything around you, talking non-stop and most of all whining about absolutely everything will make him feel that he is stuck a total bimbo. If he is among the 99% of men who are looking out for brains over beauty, you are sure to be dumped!
9. Overdressing
When you are going out on a date make it a point to never ever over dress. It is true that men are attracted to women to dress up well; however, they cannot stand a woman with a loud dressing sense. Don’t dress up so much also that you end up looking like a Christmas tree. He may just feel embarrassed to even walk with you. Also keeping your makeup minimalistic is something that you should keep in my. Remember that good clothes and makeup just enhance your beauty and not substitute it. Going over the top would give the message that you are not confident of yourself.
10. Getting Intimate too soon
Intimacy requires to be carried out on a very slow pace. Getting physically intimate too fast may result in the man in getting wrong ideas about you. It is also possible that, you may come across as ‘too available’. Men like women who are hard to get. So take your time and get to know each other before taking a step further.
If you follow all these rules and still don’t manage to get the guy, it’s his loss! Be ready to move on and get that Prince Charming for yourself.
Oh and for the record I can't lie, #7 is my biggest down fall but learn from your mistakes ladies :)
1. Being Too Available
It is important to be there for him; however, being available all the time is a strict no-no. Chances are that he will take you for granted in the long run. You may also come across as a desperate woman trying really hard for him. Men tend to get attracted to girls who are a little challenging to get. Show him that you also have a lot in life besides him.
2. Being Impractical
Many women live in a fairyland, where they assume their man to be their Prince Charming. He’s not going to be the most perfect man in the world and most importantly, he’s not going to be flawless. Everyone has some negative aspects in them, so you need to accept him along with his shortcomings.
3. Being Too Honest Too Soon
Never be too honest very soon. Don’t go about sharing intimate details on the first date itself. You may just bore your date. Getting to know each other should be step by step. It takes time. Besides, men also tend to find women who are not very open about themselves in the initial stages very interesting and with an aura of mystery about them.
4. Being Too Gullible
Trust is important. However, don’t ever trust anyone blindly in the ‘getting-to-know’ stage. It does not mean that you go about showing them you are suspicious. It’s just that you shouldn’t simply believe every word they say. Men tend to flatter women to appear charming. They may also put up a false front to appear more appealing. It is necessary to keep your eyes and ears open in order to catch the fake from the real ones. Girls have a very strong sixth sense. Let that little wiggle in you guide your way.
5. Being A Control Freak
(Being a control freak is a ultimate NO NO!!)
Don’t be so obsessed of taking charge all the time. Be it planning for a date or making reservations, sometimes it is fine to sit back and let the man do the work. It helps to boost their male ego and makes them feel powerful by taking care of you. But if you go about being a control freak and taking total charge of their lives, it may just scare them away.
6. Pretending To Be Someone Else
Never ever pretend. Men hate women who are fake and are afraid to be themselves. Being comfortable in your own skin by itself is a turn on. Always be proud about the person you are and never feel ashamed about yourself. Just be yourself and you will just do fine. At the end of the day even if the relationship doesn’t work, why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t accept you the way you are? In such a case, even if the relationship works, it would take a toll on you pretending to live up to his expectations all the time. It is the best option to let him have a glimpse of the true you at the very beginning.
7. Expecting The Man To Make The First Move
Whoever laid down the rule that the man has to make the first move? Research reveals that men find women who make the first move very appealing. It shows their high level confidence and independence which are two big turn-on’s among women.
8. Being Too Feminine
Men hate women who get angry for small things, always fuss over their weight, makeup and other such sissy topics. They prefer someone they can identify with and feel comfortable around. Show your Grounded sides, be down to earth... Overreacting for everything around you, talking non-stop and most of all whining about absolutely everything will make him feel that he is stuck a total bimbo. If he is among the 99% of men who are looking out for brains over beauty, you are sure to be dumped!
9. Overdressing
When you are going out on a date make it a point to never ever over dress. It is true that men are attracted to women to dress up well; however, they cannot stand a woman with a loud dressing sense. Don’t dress up so much also that you end up looking like a Christmas tree. He may just feel embarrassed to even walk with you. Also keeping your makeup minimalistic is something that you should keep in my. Remember that good clothes and makeup just enhance your beauty and not substitute it. Going over the top would give the message that you are not confident of yourself.
10. Getting Intimate too soon
Intimacy requires to be carried out on a very slow pace. Getting physically intimate too fast may result in the man in getting wrong ideas about you. It is also possible that, you may come across as ‘too available’. Men like women who are hard to get. So take your time and get to know each other before taking a step further.
If you follow all these rules and still don’t manage to get the guy, it’s his loss! Be ready to move on and get that Prince Charming for yourself.
Oh and for the record I can't lie, #7 is my biggest down fall but learn from your mistakes ladies :)
How to know if he's the one..
It doesn’t take long to get attracted to someone. However not everyone you get attracted to is Mr.Right. The dating world is filled with so many Mr.Wrongs that sometimes, we miss Mr.Right even if he steps in right in front of our eyes. You have been seeing this guy for a while. You finally think you’re in love. So how would you know if he is the one? Or is he just another Mr.Wrong in the disguise of Mr.Right?
In movies, you often see that when Mr.Right meets the actress, she hears bells ringing, violins playing, time stopping, birds chirping, etc. But in real life nothing of this sort is going to happen. Mr.Right’s entrance will be as normal as anybody else’s would. The trick is to catch the signs between the cues. The first and the most important thing that must be present between you and him is friendship. He must be someone whom you can trust. The comfortability level you share with him, should also be unique. He should be able to understand you and love you for the person you are. He must be someone whom you look forward to meeting with. Hence, friendship is the most important ingredient for Mr.Right. Unless he is your friend, he just cannot be even close to being ‘the one’ for you. The next thing is the way the two of you feel about each other. Sometimes, a guy may be a great friend. But unless you feel romantically inclined towards him, it won’t work out. Again the feelings must be mutual. He should be someone whom you can totally rely upon. He does not have to be your clone. But someone who shares common interests with you will definitely help. The two of you should be able to have fun easily together. It shouldn’t be that you are trying too hard.
Ultimately he should be someone with whom you feel totally comfortable to be yourself.
In movies, you often see that when Mr.Right meets the actress, she hears bells ringing, violins playing, time stopping, birds chirping, etc. But in real life nothing of this sort is going to happen. Mr.Right’s entrance will be as normal as anybody else’s would. The trick is to catch the signs between the cues. The first and the most important thing that must be present between you and him is friendship. He must be someone whom you can trust. The comfortability level you share with him, should also be unique. He should be able to understand you and love you for the person you are. He must be someone whom you look forward to meeting with. Hence, friendship is the most important ingredient for Mr.Right. Unless he is your friend, he just cannot be even close to being ‘the one’ for you. The next thing is the way the two of you feel about each other. Sometimes, a guy may be a great friend. But unless you feel romantically inclined towards him, it won’t work out. Again the feelings must be mutual. He should be someone whom you can totally rely upon. He does not have to be your clone. But someone who shares common interests with you will definitely help. The two of you should be able to have fun easily together. It shouldn’t be that you are trying too hard.
Ultimately he should be someone with whom you feel totally comfortable to be yourself.
Saturday, January 22, 2011
Why do men cheat with not so attracive women??
This is a Copy and Paste I found interesting...
Comment with your opinions..
We have all been on one or both sides of the cheating coin at one point or another in our lives. Whether it is being the one who is doing the cheating on our partners or the one being cheated on. Either way, someone loses and it destroys trust between two people that should have complete trust in each other. It has always been perplexing to men and women alike why, men especially, decide to cheat on their partners with less than attractive women when they have a good looking partner waiting for them with open arms at home. This can actually be explained in a very simple manner.
When a man gets aroused or is in the mood to have sex, they really do not like to have to take the time to challenge themselves with an attractive girl who may or may not want to have sex right then and there in that moment. When it comes to a good looking guy and an unattractive girl, it seems to work out that the girl is most of the time willing to go with the flow of the sexual advances because they themselves do not have that type of opportunity if they actually want it on a regular basis. I know this sounds kind of harsh, but it is the reality of the situation.
So, when men go out looking for someone just to have some casual fun with on the down low, they tend to seek out girls with either low self-esteem or less than stunning looks because they are a more easy and willing target. Either way you look at it, though, cheating is never the right answer. Even if it is to release anxiety or anything like that. Cheating will always cause stress and pain for one or both of the people involved in the situation and there is always a better way of approaching things like that.
Comment with your opinions..
We have all been on one or both sides of the cheating coin at one point or another in our lives. Whether it is being the one who is doing the cheating on our partners or the one being cheated on. Either way, someone loses and it destroys trust between two people that should have complete trust in each other. It has always been perplexing to men and women alike why, men especially, decide to cheat on their partners with less than attractive women when they have a good looking partner waiting for them with open arms at home. This can actually be explained in a very simple manner.
When a man gets aroused or is in the mood to have sex, they really do not like to have to take the time to challenge themselves with an attractive girl who may or may not want to have sex right then and there in that moment. When it comes to a good looking guy and an unattractive girl, it seems to work out that the girl is most of the time willing to go with the flow of the sexual advances because they themselves do not have that type of opportunity if they actually want it on a regular basis. I know this sounds kind of harsh, but it is the reality of the situation.
So, when men go out looking for someone just to have some casual fun with on the down low, they tend to seek out girls with either low self-esteem or less than stunning looks because they are a more easy and willing target. Either way you look at it, though, cheating is never the right answer. Even if it is to release anxiety or anything like that. Cheating will always cause stress and pain for one or both of the people involved in the situation and there is always a better way of approaching things like that.
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