This is merely my opinion... Just speaking as a woman. Understand this though, my mind works differently then alot of women. Sooooooo in my opinion, experience and knowledge alot of women say one thing but mean another simply because... in some weird, strange some what unfair way, women expect men to be mind readers. Most women would never even agree with the fact they feel this way, because all woman want to come across fair and "one of a kind" when in all actuality we do infact expect men to display this behavior of "Knowing what we want" without actually saying what it is we want. Example: Alot of ladies will tell a man she's "NOT interested in a relationship" to seem to be on the same level as the man she may be interested to gain "Points" or in other words to appear on the "Same page". Alot of ladies do this (and I have been guilty of this) because they may be feeling the guy so much that they want to keep him in their zone. And then sometimes some women may really feel the same way but in the midst of dating, hanging out i.e., begin to get attached. Which you can't blame happening, if your a awesome guy. It's perfectly normal for a person to catch feelings. (TRUST ME men do this too, not only women.)
Another example, is when women tell men their "Not upset" about something but their actually really pissed. Aot of women do this because we want our man to know when we are pissed. In most cases depending on the relationship and bond he would know when she mean "I'm cooooo" versus "I'm ok babe" lol. (For the record when a woman says I'm cooooooooo" and holds the cooooooo she's not cool at all"
and last but not least, Us women are very emotional and sensitive as men know. Especially for the man we "LOVE" A good woman will LOVE a man regardless, broke, rich, raggedy or flashy, car no car, living with mama or secure with his own shit... But the best feeling in the world is when a man know how to please her. When he pays enough attention to know his woman's thought's, how she move, the things she do and the reasoning behind HER overall... See as little girls we have an idea how she wants her life to go. Success, meet the perfect man, Marry him, have beautiful babies and be in LOVE forever. LMAO as corny as that shit sound.. it's true in most cases. I even have a lil chic.... emotional, sensitive........type shit in me to actually want the same but yea..... anyways! We do the things off top that we "Think/raised up knowing" men need. Cook, clean, sex, take care of the kids, work, be the bottom bitch, wash the niggas clothes ALL THAT. so in return we expect men to know we have feelings and emotions that are delicate and require lots of attention.
Buuuut ya know idk, Those are my thoughts. Comment and let me know yours :)
*Disclaimer* I typed as i thought and I have ADD so if my blog seem everywhere in thought pattern, yea... that's my excuse :)
