For years I've had many male friends. (No fcuking involved) Not too mention I have 3 brother's and a number of male cousin's that kept me in a certain place as I matured into a woman. Ya know, they kept me "Sharp" when it comes to men... not to mention the natural logic within my own mind. My brain works on a firm and fair basis. I have a very deep understanding, and again I'm a very Logical woman. What I am about to say is "Strickly" on a "If I was a man" theory. I am about to explain how I know I would operate as a guy.. and in no way am I making or creating a "escape go" for cheater's, manipulators, or womanizers. In fact for the record I will make it clear as a "Woman" My mind differ in my "If I was a man" theory and this blog is simply how my mind work.
Let me explain something to further demonstrate myself as a person. As many people know I am a very strong, bold woman. I know this... I have very strong beliefs in what I believe in but I also respect and can accept another person's views, still standing firm in my own. So know this. I have a dominating streak within myself so in that aspect I feel I can identify with the way a man think. That is why I feel I can write such blog describing "If I was a man" so here we go.
RELATIONSHIP WISE
IF I WAS A MAN..... I would marry my bottom chic, off top or the woman I feel is genuine. I'd never ever marry the woman I am "ify" about. If something don't seem right most of the time it isn't. anyways she has to be my down my ride or die. She wouldn't have to worry about anything, Mortgage, Car note, Groceries, Bills etc. everything would be taken care of off top because I have a "Provider" mentality. I believe every man should take care of home... FIRST! above anything else. Home is home. Home is supposed to be comfortable as well as a stress free zone, when I'm out in the streets I'm in the streets but wifey and the kids shall always be happy and comfortable. Taking care of home, distinguishes so many problems. I don't believe men understand this. The things women bitch about are typically... Time, Money or another woman... and again, that's where taking care of home is number 1 PRIORITY!
Men are often know to have a chic or two on the sideline, either their sleeping with them or not, I can't front if I was a man although I love my wife with all of my heart I may have a chic I deal with for whatever personal reason... But side chic's should never ever have access or the ability to create problematic situations at HOME. Men slip all thee time when it comes to side hoes. (Fcuking with out rubber's, giving them the home number, buying them sentimental objects via credit card.. whatever)If you are keeping home locked down and creeping, the worse thing any man can do is give a "outside bitch" access and or information regarding home. As soon as a outside bitch feels she have significant info to screw a man over with his family, she will. And she will tell it all... not to mention make herself sound or appear more relevant then the wife, How fcuked up is that? In that case a deep deception wall will be built on the behalf of a wife. Wanna know more comment and let me know.. I will gladly share more insight on my thoughts :)
