This is merely my opinion... Just speaking as a woman. Understand this though, my mind works differently then alot of women. Sooooooo in my opinion, experience and knowledge alot of women say one thing but mean another simply because... in some weird, strange some what unfair way, women expect men to be mind readers. Most women would never even agree with the fact they feel this way, because all woman want to come across fair and "one of a kind" when in all actuality we do infact expect men to display this behavior of "Knowing what we want" without actually saying what it is we want. Example: Alot of ladies will tell a man she's "NOT interested in a relationship" to seem to be on the same level as the man she may be interested to gain "Points" or in other words to appear on the "Same page". Alot of ladies do this (and I have been guilty of this) because they may be feeling the guy so much that they want to keep him in their zone. And then sometimes some women may really feel the same way but in the midst of dating, hanging out i.e., begin to get attached. Which you can't blame happening, if your a awesome guy. It's perfectly normal for a person to catch feelings. (TRUST ME men do this too, not only women.)
Another example, is when women tell men their "Not upset" about something but their actually really pissed. Aot of women do this because we want our man to know when we are pissed. In most cases depending on the relationship and bond he would know when she mean "I'm cooooo" versus "I'm ok babe" lol. (For the record when a woman says I'm cooooooooo" and holds the cooooooo she's not cool at all"
and last but not least, Us women are very emotional and sensitive as men know. Especially for the man we "LOVE" A good woman will LOVE a man regardless, broke, rich, raggedy or flashy, car no car, living with mama or secure with his own shit... But the best feeling in the world is when a man know how to please her. When he pays enough attention to know his woman's thought's, how she move, the things she do and the reasoning behind HER overall... See as little girls we have an idea how she wants her life to go. Success, meet the perfect man, Marry him, have beautiful babies and be in LOVE forever. LMAO as corny as that shit sound.. it's true in most cases. I even have a lil chic.... emotional, sensitive........type shit in me to actually want the same but yea..... anyways! We do the things off top that we "Think/raised up knowing" men need. Cook, clean, sex, take care of the kids, work, be the bottom bitch, wash the niggas clothes ALL THAT. so in return we expect men to know we have feelings and emotions that are delicate and require lots of attention.
Buuuut ya know idk, Those are my thoughts. Comment and let me know yours :)
*Disclaimer* I typed as i thought and I have ADD so if my blog seem everywhere in thought pattern, yea... that's my excuse :)
2 comments:
I have to agree %100 i learned myself that in most cases a woman will tell us men she fine when really shes not. sadly however most men will be like "ok" and REALLY think nothings wrong. We as men have to pay more attention to detail with our women then we will become "mind readers" so to speak. For example if a man notices that every time his lady is mad or upset she will tilt her head while shes saying "im ok" then thats his way of knowing ok shes mad about something cause her head is slightly tilted.
As far as saying she doesnt want a relationship i find that to be some sort of test to see the mans response. A complete dumb ass would respond in such a way that would completely turn the woman off of him. No we men are not mind readers but if we do pay attention to detail we will at least have hints and clues as to whats going on in a womans mind
Women do this all the time its in there nature.Once again you have no choice but to protect your inner power to being exposed to the unnatural.ie:the unknown.If you like him let him know so both of you can move to the next stage of connection,which is not physical but a mental intwinnng of getting to know each others spirit/soul etc.Now if your afraid that its not a natural connection between you both. Cause you as the woman don't wana get hurt. And also like the chase to see what this mans really on.until you like what you see so much that you fall which is natural again for man and woman.Now seeing you have a very strong streak about you,so you will not let ur guard down until your sure mentally which is the correct way.Now if a girl is acting as if shes on the samepage to get points, it only leaves you bewildered.You will never know until "YOU" tell them or give a SIGN or something which allows them to see.If u get attached its also natural because u feel the energy and like it.A women will always expect a man to know whats on there mind or feelings,but can't get that unless there both intuned so in the event she say i'm cooooooo..[he'll know]if he LOVES his women.As she will know him.The dream u have is exactly what all girls want, whether u get it or not is a different story.Also every human is grown up with expectations of what they want from lifes relationships. From however we were brought up/home,streets,school,friends etc.
She should always be the top beauty and not the bottom b......if she's his world then he's hers.If another girl gets your priviledges then somethings wrong and you've both lost each other mentally.So in other words stay ontop of things:) hope you felt my feelings on that subject:)
p.s .Always care cause there your feelings and its your truth..No...!??
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