Monday, February 7, 2011

So he don't appreciate you?

There are some women who say that their boyfriends just don't appreciate them. If you are one of them there he is what you should know about why some guys just don't appreciate their girlfriends.

She is nothing more than a doormat

When you are in love you want to do everything for your man to keep him happy. But some women go overboard in doing so and end up being like doormats. Once a man realizes that his girl is going to accept his most unreasonable demand and wish his appreciation for her just goes down the drain.

She makes herself too available

When a woman is around a man all the time and makes herself all too much available for him then his appreciation for her wanes. Just like too much of something is bad, hanging around a guy whenever he is free also spells disaster. Such women don't get appreciated because their men never get a chance to miss them.

She whines all the time

A man will not appreciate a woman who whines and cries all the time. Being on a self pity drive doesn't encourage anyone to appreciate you. Instead it acts brilliantly when you want to annoy a guy and drive him away from yourself.

She doesn't give him any space

Some women suffocate a man by their presence. They don't believe that a man might just want to do something without them. These women become veritable pile on's that men find difficult to shrug off. Hence they begin to treat these women in a way that makes them feel unappreciated.

She is too critical of him

A man is also not appreciative of a woman who is too critical of him. Everybody has flaws and a guy just wants to be accepted as a package with his set of flaws included. When a woman begins to constantly criticize him on the pretext of changing him and making him 'better' he begins to lose all appreciation for her.

He just cannot see all the things that she is doing for him

Some men are also short sighted. They cannot bring themselves to see all that their girlfriend is doing for them. These men are so full of themselves that they become incapable of appreciating anyone except themselves.

He just cannot respect her

Finally, a man will not be able to appreciate a woman who he doesn't respect. If his girlfriend acts in a manner where she either flirts with his friends or misbehaves or doesn't value the things that he likes and does for her then he will not appreciate her.

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